Harold “Hal” Lewis Whitby

Harold “Hal” Lewis Whitby

October 18, 1948 - April 08, 2010

Harold “Hal” Lewis Whitby

October 18, 1948 - April 08, 2010

Obituary

Hal Whitby, our ‘Pops’, passed on to new life on April 8, 2010 after an abundant, adventure and love-filled life and a most valiant battle against cancer.

Hal was born on October 18, 1948 to Joyce and Harold ‘Whit’ Whitby in Portland Oregon. He was raised with his half brother Jim and sister Barbara. At age 2, Hal’s parents moved their family to North Hollywood where Hal would first attend a Lutheran Private Elementary School and then public school. He attended junior high in West Covina before his parents moved the family once more to Laguna Beach. Hal attended Laguna Beach High School for two years and then after a final family move to Dana Point, Hal finished his junior and senior years at San Clemente High School. A varsity football player all 4 years, Hal graduated from SCHS in 1965.

Following graduation, Hal began working beside his father Whit and landed work in sound production for ABC, covering the campaign for upcoming Governor Pat Brown, Wide World of Sports, Joey Bishop Show, Chuck Barris Game Shows and others. By age 20 Hal had his own apartment in Manhattan Beach, was the proud owner of a Porsche and began his illustrious career as a free lance pioneer audio mixer. The musical events, television shows and films Hal masterfully worked on are numerous, too numerous to mention in entirety. In the early 1970’s Hal worked on video shows with Barbara Streisand, the Jackson 5, Chicago, the Beach Boys and Dick Clark.

In 1976 Hal entered the world of sound production by joining DGA. Hal was known for his sound production on films including Private Benjamin 1980 with Goldie Hawn, The Blue & The Grey 1982 with Stacy Keach, Uncommon Valor 1983 and Red Dawn 1984 with Patrick Swayze & National Lampoon s Vacation 1983 with Chevy Chase.

Hal worked on many TV series including Our House 1984-86 with Wilford Brimley. It was during these years he met Cary Amber Weitz who became not only his right hand man as Boom Operator, but a lifelong friend and family member as well. Additional TV series included Falcon Crest, Knotts Landing, Island Son 1989 with Richard Chamberlain, Thunder in Paradise 1995 with Hulk Hogan, and for 6 years and 99 episodes 1992-1998 Baywatch with David Hasselhoff and dear friend David Chokachi. Hal’s final work was with Martin Sheen in West Wing. His progressing cancer forced his early retirement in 2002.

The ensuing 8 years Hal was freed to do what he loved most: be with his family, friends, dogs Annie and Muggins, and the ocean.

Hal fell in love and married his sweetheart Suzy in 1970. Upon first meeting Suzy, he came home to tell his mother Joy, ‘I have met the woman I want to marry.’ They married later that year on his birthday, October 18th …the beginning of a 40-year love story apparent and inspiring to all who knew them. Hal loved and supported Suzy’s five children and the many family pets as if they were his own. He will forever be remembered and missed by Mary Phil Edwards, Nancy Thompson, Kasey Dimond, Dave Kristen Schultz and his ‘baby’ Sam Gary Marshall.

Decades of happy family memories in Hal and Suzy’s home ensued. Many friends became family and were invited to enjoy Hal’s hospitality and Suzy’s good cooking.

Hal poured his time, interest and hands-on-help into his 4 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren: Amy Colin McPhillips and their 4 children Kai, Dax, Ezra and Steele; Heidi Brandon Marshall and their 5 month old Gavin, Jacob and Alex ‘Lexi’ Schultz. What his children and grandchildren remember most was their Pops open pride often in toasts to them, his bear hugs, his ability to hear a need or want and to show up the next day with a gift, advice, offer of help.

Hal had a great love of music, Suzy’s cooking, the game of pool, art and particularly the ocean. A long time surfer and member of the Hawaiian Surf Club, Hal taught his sons-in-law, friends, grandson Jacob, and great grandsons the true love of surfing, the spirit of Ohana. The ocean, free and strong like him, will always bring Hal’s memory to his family.

Hal’s example of courage, selflessness, service, generosity, freedom and strength will always be remembered. He bore the pain of his cancer privately, refusing to stop life for a disease. Hal outlived every prognosis of his disease and was invited to speak to other oncologists and patients about his story. Hal lived and gave fully, communicating his love always.

Some of the comments coming from those who knew and loved Hal include:

‘If he told you something, offered his help, you could count on it.’

‘He had a kind word for everyone.’

‘Hal loved everyone who knew him and everyone who knew him, loved Hal.’

‘For Hal, when the candle was flickering he made it burn brighter and brighter!’

‘I will never forget not only Hal’s courage, but intense love for everyone in his life.’

We invite all who knew and loved Hal and his family to join us for a celebration and honoring of his life on Sunday, April 25th, 3:00 pm at the Doheny State Beach with a paddle out to follow. Meet us at the Palapa on the sand directions at the gate and bring your beach chair or a towel. Hal would want you to feel the sand under your feet, the ocean breeze in your hair and to gaze at the wonder of the waves, free and strong, so like him. This ocean he loved was created by the God in whose presence he now stands, healthy and strong.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations to The American Cancer Society in Hal’s memory.

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28 responses to Harold “Hal” Lewis Whitby

  1. Suzy, Sam and Family,

    I will never forget Hal’s passion for life, family, friends and surfing. Hal will be missed but his legacy will live through all of us that had the blessing of knowing him. Rest in peace Hal you are home!

  2. Sammy and Family,
    We wanted to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We know you will miss your dad so much, what a treasure to have had such a great man in your lives. Always thinking about you right now. xoxo Steve,Sharron, Tamara,Tyler,Brianna

  3. I Stu met Hal & Suzy on a lazy Saturday morning a few years ago. Steve Irvin, one of Hal’s dearest friends, asked me to drive down with him as Steve had a new board that he was delivering. I can recall that day as if it were yesterday—Suzy walking through their beautiful home barefoot, Hal greeting me for the first time as if we were friends for 40 years. I was Steve’s friend, and that was good enough for Hal. Hal showed me around his home, proudly pointing out a surfboard that was mounted on the wall one of his son-in-laws had made for him. I recall that he said someone had offered him $20K for it, but he turned the offer down without a second thought, because it was a gift from his son-in-law, and it meant so much to him that he would never sell it for any amount of money. Not being a surfer, Hal and I did not have that bond, but I just LIKED him. With his laid back attitude and long pony-tail, he was the epitome of cool. I saw Hal twice more—at Steve’s daughter’s wedding, where we shared a table with he and Suzy. Hal was pretty sick, but he and Suzy danced and danced. He looked like he had just met Suzy, and if one didn’t know better, you would swear that they were on their 1st or 2nd date. The final time I saw Hal was at Steve’s 60th birthday party, almost 4 years ago. A photo was taken of Hal, Steve, Bob Hays Hal had known Bob while working in Hollywood and myself. Hal was 16 days older than I, and even though he was a shade older, and sick at the time, he looked lots better than me in the photo. I would call Hal when we were staying at our timeshare in Carlsbad, and one time I even left a rambling joking message about how we were so close to his house that we might as well just drop by for dinner, and that we were on our way. When I spoke with him a few days later, he said that if they had been home, that would have been just fine. That’s the kind of person Hal was, and while I obviously did not get to know him like Steve, Mary, and his friends and family did, I know that he was a tremendous person who will be missed dearly. I wish that there were more people on Earth like Hal Whitby, and while I’m eternally grateful to Steve for having introduced me to Hal, I regret not having met him 40 years ago—I’m sure that he could have taught me a lot about life, and he may even have been patient enough to teach me how to surf. Our thoughts and prayers are with Suzy and the rest of Hal’s beloved family.

  4. Steve Irvin says:

    I love you my brother,

    Thank you for all that you and Suzie gave Mary and I as well as the entire Irvin family. You came into our lives and changed them forever. I’ll be in the water on your board and feeling you there tomorrow.

    YBF

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