Steven Oel Spelman, Jr.
October 25, 1960 - August 13, 2011
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Steven Oel Spelman, Jr.
October 25, 1960 - August 13, 2011
Obituary
Steven Oel Spelman, Jr., 50, of Southern California, died August 13, 2011, at his Coto de Caza home.
Steven was born October 25, 1960, in Pasadena, California, to Steven Sr. and Carol. He attended Richard Henry Dana Elementary School, Marco Forster Middle School and Dana Hills High School. He continued his education at University of California Santa Barbara, where he earned his BA in Economics and was granted a fellowship at University of Southern California, where he earned his MBA. Steven competed as an Academic Decathlon student in high school and later supported the Orange County Academic Decathlon as an advisor to the students and helped to run the competitions.
He enjoyed baseball, surfing and volleyball growing up and continued surfing and volleyball for many years. He loved golfing with friends and fly fishing in Idaho and Colorado.
Steven is survived by his wife, Michelle; sons, Andrew and Michael; daughter, Hailey; stepchildren, Thomas and Sarah Trauger; and mother, Carol Rush. He was predeceased by his father, Steven Oel Spelman, Sr. He was the oldest of four and is survived by Janet, Laura and Mark.
He had an accomplished business career, joining Arthur Andersen as a CPA, followed by roles as Chief Financial Officer for Capital Pacific Holdings and President of Banning Lewis Ranch. He and Michelle purchased their own winery and produced award-winning Joliet Vineyards Zinfandel.
Steven was generous with his money and a strong supporter to his family. He was in the middle of putting four of five children through college, with his youngest starting next year. He was looking forward to grandchildren and was cherished by his young nieces, Brianna and Samantha. His older nieces, Ashlee and Kathrin, have fond memories of their uncle Steve and loved him dearly.
Services will be held at 2pm on September 3rd at Coto de Caza Golf & Racquet Club www.clubcorp.com/CotodeCaza and we welcome friends, family and colleagues. A small family ceremony will be held earlier that day to spread his ashes at sea.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in Steven’s memory to the Orange County Academic Decathlon Association.
OCAD Association
PO Box 9050
Costa Mesa, CA 92628
Attn: Kristin Rigby
or online at http://academicevents.ocde.us/decathlon.htm
59 responses to Steven Oel Spelman, Jr.
Patti & Dave Howald says:
August 24, 2011
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Paul Bingham says:
August 24, 2011
I am deeply saddened and shocked at Steve’s passing. He was a good man and a good friend, and I will miss him. I enjoyed working with Steve when he was at Arthur Andersen, and remember fondly the good times we had together playing golf. My heart goes out to Michelle and Steve’s family. I know they will miss him terribly, as will I.
Peggy McCormick says:
August 24, 2011
Michelle and the entire Spelman family – My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time in your lives. With deepest sympathy, Peggy
Robert Feiwell says:
August 24, 2011
My deepest condolences. I will always cherish my memories of the great times we had together.
Robert Landheer says:
August 24, 2011
Steven was an engaged father who cared about his children.
Condolences and best wishes to the family.
Robert Landheer