Parviz Allahyari Tafreshi
September 23, 1945 - March 31, 2008
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Parviz Allahyari Tafreshi
September 23, 1945 - March 31, 2008
Obituary
Parviz Tafreshi was a beautiful man. His kindness, patience, sense of humor, and ingenuity made him one of a kind. As a husband to Farie, his unconditional love made every moment of her life a precious gift. As a father to Shawn, he was a mentor, passing his wisdom and kindness with a simple loving hug, and his unforgettable laughter.
He taught everyone who met him what was truly important in this brief life we all live. The simplest things most people take for granted, he embraced and treasured. He fought unimaginable health crises with dignity and a smile. He fought so very hard, for so very long, not for himself, but for his wife, son, and new-found daughter, Bahar. He danced at Shawn and Bahar’s wedding last year and proclaimed it to be the happiest day of his life. His family and friends meant everything to him.
Parviz loved hunting dove and quail, gardening, creating works of unique art, bird watching, cooking, and fixing anything and I mean anything that was broken. He was a technical wizard, who could create a phenomenal work of art from the earth, using nothing but his hands. He believed in the wondrous intricacies of the natural world, embracing its beauty whenever he could. His spirit is alive today in the garden he created. His vibrant energy lives on in the hearts of all who loved him.
If you are reading this, you know that he was a magnificent story teller. He remembered details of his childhood as if it happened yesterday. He never forgot someone he had met. As a result, we will be informally telling stories at his memorial. Before I go on, I must state quite honestly that he did not like the darkness and bleakness of funerals. He wanted his life to be celebrated by his friends and family wearing white or vibrant colors, anything other than black.
For the memorial service, please think of a story up to 5 minutes, that captures the human being he was. All of you will be asked to come to a podium and speak. Parviz wanted family and friends to celebrate his passing with storytelling, and with colors. The best thing you can do in his memory is to create laughter at his memorial, just like he created laughter in our hearts.
I love you with all my heart,
Shawn Tafreshi -proud son
MEMORIAL SERVICE
El Toro Memorial Park
25751 Trabuco Rd., Lake Forest, CA 92630
949951-8244
Saturday April 5, 2008, 11:00am – 1:30pm
The Park will be on your right hand side. Once you enter, look to your right on a small field of grass. You will see a tent. That is where the memorial will be held. Park your car anywhere you can.
RECEPTION
4 Seasons Restaurant Formerly Darband
14210 Culver Dr., Irvine, CA 92604
3:00pm-5:00pm *More stories will be shared
FLOWERS
In lieu of flowers, my father would prefer an alternative. For a decade, Parviz and Farie have helped support Moloud Sarlak, a girl living in Poverty in Khuzestan, Iran. She is one of 7 children who lost their father far too soon. If you are inclined, you may donate cash or a check to cash of any amount. Farie and Shawn will guarantee that every penny is donated in Parviz’s honor.
63 responses to Parviz Allahyari Tafreshi
Geoff & Margaret Arkley says:
April 4, 2008
A true “Gentleman”. Such an alert mind and a wonderful sense of humour. One of the truly good people of life. I will miss you my dear friend.
heshmat, Sadegh and Baneh says:
April 4, 2008
Dear Farie, Parshawn and Bahar, As you know our family had the honor of being your friends for many many years. Through the years we learned of Parviz’s beautiful characteristics. He came cross to us as a talented gentleman with kindest heart and full of sense of humor. Every visit with him is memorable. In our many gatherings through discussing issues no matter how different we were, at the end we remained comfortable friends. He was respectful toward his family and friends.
Swear to the vibrant red sunset
Swear to the innocence of a child’s heart
Swear to a delicate new spring leaf……
Swear, his memories will carry us to the end and nourishes our souls
Love always,
Heshmat, Sadegh and Baneh
Jan & Lydia Timmermans and Family says:
April 4, 2008
There are no words to describe the feelings we have over the loss of our dear friend and co-worker Parviz. It has been an honor and a privilege to have him as a friend and we have learned such a great deal from this courageous man. Parviz has touched our lives in so many ways. From how he faced his medical challenges, fighting his way through each and every obstacle put in front of him, to his pride and love for his family, and the pride he took in his work. He is a true inspiration. Thank you Parviz, for just being you and for being our friend. You will forever be in our hearts, and will be greatly missed by all.
Jila Hakimi says:
April 4, 2008
I met Parviz at LA airport. Late 1960″°Ã¢”šÂ¬Ã¢”žÂ¢s , Ferry, myself and one of Ferry”°Ã¢”šÂ¬Ã¢”žÂ¢s friend went to LA airport to welcome him to US and pick him up. Whenever he saw me, he would remind me of that time and how humorously, serious we were. He brought us all the joy of laughter, humor and fun. He pulled so many tricks on me during our school years at Cal State LA. We shared great moments and in my heart he is always alive and laughing. Sometimes we had deep conversation about life and in our last conversation, he told me that in his book I was all right. In the same telephone conversation about a year ago, he told me that he has learned that everything is funny and the best way to live is to enjoy the moments.
Even though we did not get to see each other in the recent years, his smile, laughter and humor stays with me.
Parviz, enjoy your new journey and may be we see each other again.
This time, you may be the one who greets me when I get there. I know it will be a fun place.
May your journey be filled with love and joy and freedom.
Love you,
Jila
Judy Nazemi says:
April 4, 2008
Dearest Farie Joon, Parshawn and Barhar: My sincerest condolences to you and may you be strengthened and comforted from above in the coming days as you reminesce on all the wonderful memories Parvies created for you. We have always felt so blessed to have met Parvies and Farie almost forty years ago. I will never forget Parvies”°Ã¢”šÂ¬Ã¢”žÂ¢ joyful demeanor, delightful laughter and a smile that lit up the room. His ability to entertain people and share his joy will truly be missed, but he will forever be in my heart and my thoughts with gratitude for having known him. As Massood said, Parvies truly loved spending time at Heisler Park, especially on Friday nights, and once said it is one of the most beautiful places in the whole world. I will always think of him with loving memories as I visit Heisler Park which I often refer to as Parvies”°Ã¢”šÂ¬Ã¢”žÂ¢ Park.
Farewell my dear Friend with love,
Judy Nazemi