JR Schooley

JR Schooley

June 17, 1964 - September 21, 2011

JR Schooley

June 17, 1964 - September 21, 2011


Born in California on Jun. 17, 1964
Died on Sep. 21, 2011 and resided in San Juan Capistrano, CA.

JR Schooley

June 17, 1964 September 21, 2011

JR Schooley, passed away at home Wednesday September 21, 2011, surrounded by his family, friends and his many pets.

JR was born June 17, 1964, in Orange, California. His family moved to northwest Washington shortly afterward. He grew up and attended high school in Renton, Washington and joined the US Navy right out of high school. After boot camp, he started Basic Underwater Demolition/SEAL training in Coronado, California in January 1983, and graduated with Class 124. Upon graduation from BUD/S he attended Army Jump School and SEAL Qualification Training. He earned his SEAL Trident and was assigned to SEAL Team Five in Coronado.

As a SEAL, JR travelled to many countries including the Philippines, Thailand, Korea, and Scotland and was deployed to Kuwait in support of Operation Desert Storm in 1991. In 1994 an injury led to a medical discharge from the navy. He began a career in the homebuilding industry and worked for several prominent builders as a superintendent, purchasing manager and a project manager. When homebuilding slowed down he went to work for a good friend and fellow SEAL, as the operations manager for his CRBN company. In 2001, JR re-entered the military as a reservist in the SEAL Teams in Coronado.

JR enjoy being a frogman, as well as being outdoors, hiking and biking, he loved to cook and was an avid NASCAR fan, with Mark Martin as his favorite driver. He was clever and creative, always thinking up things to build or make. He participated in the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life and was involved in several local charities including the Capo Animal Rescue Effort and Homefront America and any other group or organization that could use his talents.

JR is survived by his wife, Holly Carlson Schooley of San Juan Capistrano, his son Jake Schooley of Spring Valley, CA, his father, Duane Schooley, Sr. of Renton, WA, his mother, Shirley Lee of Hemet, CA, his sister, Deb Baker of Bend, OR, his sister Candy Nelson, of Seattle, WA, his brother Michael McFaul, of Ballard, WA, his sister Karie Tarte of Stanwood, WA and his brother Duane Schooley, Jr. of Renton, WA. He is also survived many beloved nieces and nephews. His brother Don McFaul, also a Navy SEAL, was killed in Panama in 1989 in Operation Just Cause.

Visitation will be Sunday October 2nd from 3:00pm to 5:00pm at O’Connor Mortuary in Laguna Hills, services will be held Monday October 3rd, 2011, at 9:00am at Pacific Coast Church in San Clemente, CA. Burial will be Monday October 3rd, 2011, at Miramar National Cemetery in San Diego, CA at 1:00pm. JR will be buried with full military honors.

In lieu of flowers, it was his wish for donations to be made in his name to the Navy SEAL Foundation www.navysealfoundation.org or the American Brain Tumor Association www.abta.org.


J.R. Schooley always answered the call of duty.

He served his country as a Navy SEAL, he volunteered for Capistrano charities and he was always there for a friend who needed just about anything done.

“He was like MacGyver,” said his wife, Holly Schooley. “He could build anything, he could fix anything, he could make anything.”

He did it all’from serving with SEAL Team 5 in the first Gulf War to helping other equestrians at Mission Trails Stables’with a laid-back, will-do attitude.

But few who knew him realized J.R. for more than a decade battled a brain tumor. It seemed to be in remission, but showed signs of growth in 2010. And then last week, a cough developed into a hospital stay and blood clots were found in his legs and lungs.

He returned home from the hospital on Saturday, September 17 to be with his family and beloved cats. He passed away on Wednesday, September 21.

He was 47.

“Everything changed so quickly,” Holly said. “We knew it was incurable, but we thought he’d walk out of the hospital on Wednesday.”

J.R. wanted to be in the couple’s Mission Glen home, though, where he could be with his four cats, two dogs and talking parrot. The couple also has three horses boarded at Mission Trails Stables.

His family’J.R. is survived by five siblings and a son, Jake, from a previous marriage’was there when he passed away, Holly said.

“When he got home, I think he decided he didn’t have any more reserves to call up,” said Holly, J.R.’s wife of 13 years. “When I look at the last year, I can’t believe he went so quickly.”

The couple had been to Disneyland with a niece, been to Washington state, attended a West Coast SEALs reunion in Coronado and even bicycled the majority of a 450-mile ride in Iowa with Holly Schooley’s father.

The ride was an annual favorite of Holly’s dad, and she’d said she’d ride in his 20th. And when she said she’d do it, that meant J.R. would do it, too, because that’s just the way he was.

He did things his own way, though. When a neighbor complained his dogs were barking too much, J.R. posted a sign in front yard asking people not to approach the home to leave fliers, because that would make the dog bark. But the sign also urged passing motorists to honk their horns if they loved pets. The neighbor complained to City Hall, but J.R. said it was a First Amendment right.

Another time, tired of seeing trash along Ortega Highway, he and his son walked the road through town, filling up trash bag after trash bag with litter.

J.R. was active in Capistrano Animal Rescue Effort and Relay for Life and also a strong supporter of Homefront America, a San Juan Capistrano charity that supports military families. J.R. and Holly participated in the charity’s chili cook-off, not only with a chili recipe but by making and selling tri-tip sandwiches. They’d donate the proceeds to Homefront.

The military was long a part of J.R.’s life. He joined right after graduating from high school in 1982 and served 12 years before a shattered ankle led to a medical discharge. He was reinstated as a reserve in 2001. It ran in his family: His brother, Donald L. McFaul, was also a Navy SEAL and was killed in action in Panama in 1989. Chief Petty Officer McFaul, who left safe cover to save another serviceman, was posthumously honored with the Navy Cross and a Navy destroyer is named after him.

J.R. was a Petty Officer, First Class.

“He was a Navy SEAL right up to September 21,” Holly said.

As Holly Schooley sorted through photographs and memories in the living room of their home on Tuesday, she wore a gold chain with J.R.’s wedding ring and a gold trident’the SEAL symbol’around her neck.

Visitation is set for 3 p.m. Sunday, October 2 at O’Connor Mortuary, 25301 Alicia Parkway, Laguna Hills. The service is scheduled for 9 a.m. on Monday, October 3 at Pacific Coast Church, 2651 Calle Frontera in San Clemente. Burial will be 1 p.m., Monday, October 3 at Miramar National Cemetery 5795 Nobel Drive in San Diego.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be sent to the Naval Special Warfare Foundation, www.nswfoundation.org

~ article by Jonathan Volzke, The Capistrano Dispatch

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12 responses to JR Schooley

  1. Barry Wass says:

    I met JR in Orlando when we were in Quartermaster “A” School together. We had some good laughs in the short time together. I caught up with him from time to time over the years by phone and we did actually get to meet up once in San Diego when our paths crossed again. I am so heartbroken to hear of his passing. I will always remember him with his quirky smile he had.

  2. Sharon Wayne says:

    I would like to send my condolences to all of JR’s family and close friends.
    I was JR’s first wife. We met in Subic Bay, PI in the mid 80’s. We were just friends at that time, dispite JR’s and my Command Master Chief’s(SEAL also) best attempts. I was a Navy Hospital Corpsman and worked in the ER. JR would come in while I was working nights and play sick or hurt. You have got to appreciate his determination! He admitted all of this to me once I agreed to go out with him.

    It wasn’t until I was sent to CA in mid ’87 ,that we dated. After the first date ,we never really were apart, except for work..We married in December ’87. I also knew his brother, Don, from my time at Subic. We were friends before I knew JR. I didn’t find out till quite a bit later that they were brothers. I was married to JR when Don was killed in ’89.
    I remember Don calling ,and excitedly ,lettings us know that they were having a baby.

    Unfortunately, Panama changed things.I flew with a very pregnant Pat, while JR flew with Don. My prayer go out to Megan, I hope that Pat kept Don’s family in Megan’s life.
    Don’s death changed JR..He saw what Pat went through, and worried about their
    unborn baby, Megan.
    He started picking fights with me before he had to leave on a mission. He said it was for my benefit should he not come back, that it wouldnt hurt as much.

    After Desert Storm and Shield, he came back different. Not initially, but by early 92, it was very obvious to me. It took him passing out and having issues with diving before his command started noticing. Considering what I know about his time in country,during DS , We had believed that something happened to him over there- some kind of exposure..he had personality and behavior changes . We divorced in March’93.
    I believe that was when the brain tumor started. I spoke to JR a few times not long before he passed.I offered to write a letter on his behalf (That offer still stands if needed for Jake)
    JR and I caught up on each other’s lives and made peace with our past relationship. He said some very kind things to me and I do not regret my time with him, nor getting to meet and know his friends and family. You guys will always have a special place in my heart and memories.
    I hope and pray that time helps lessen the pain that you feel , and that, each day a little bit of pain is replaced with fond memories that make you smile…and happy.
    With Warmest Regards,
    Sharon (Hunt) Wayne

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