John Francis Gabriel

John Francis Gabriel

November 15, 1938 - October 11, 2021
Costa Mesa California

John Francis Gabriel

November 15, 1938 - October 11, 2021
Costa Mesa California

Obituary

John Francis Gabriel

John was a first generation Northern Italian American born November 15, 1938 in the Bronx to Selma Rossetti and Willie Gabriel.  They lived in his grandfather’s home with 2 other families.  None of the adults had attended high school. Some couldn’t speak English.  Until he was 25 he slept on a cot in the dining room.  He skipped 2 grades and fell in love with public speaking winning his first NY state championship when he was 12. He graduated from Fordham Prep, College and Law school in 1962.  He joined the Army Reserves, passed the NY Bar and went to work for the Federal Trade Commission.  When the chance arose he ‘offered, to move to CA and help open the LA office. 

Like  dream come true he landed in Malibu living among movie stars. In 1968 he married Susan Duffield and passed the CA Bar.  Goodbye NY and the FTC,

hello Harvey Aluminum, Cal Comp and Hunt Wesson, each of which moved East.  Finally he found a professional home with the soft drink industry.  First as General Council for Coke of Los Angeles and then as President of the Pepsi Cola Bottler’s Association.  He attended the100th Celebrations for each and many major sporting events following their sponsorships including World Series, Rose Bowls, Ryder Cups, and Olympics in LA, Barcelona Sydney and Italy. 

Meanwhile he and Susan raised their children Donna, Bill and Carrie. He treasured their long talks weighing their life choices.  He was very proud to be their father and focused on providing for his family.

Retirement in 2006 refocused his energy from having to provide for family to discovering and following his passions and being a doting grandfather and husband. Susan got her ranch and horses and trips to Brazil, South Africa, Peru, Equador Chile and Southeast Asia.  Each year he organized at least one golfing adventure domestic or foreign for his myriad golfing buddies.  He also decided to leave this world better than he found it.  First he became certified as an Court Appointed Special Advocate(CASA) for 3 wonderful young men.  Then while recruiting for more CASAs he joined the Knights of Columbus and using his speaking talents started money raising for the Intellectually Disabled.  He got certified as a Mediator and volunteered 2 days each week for Superior (family) Court.  His final project was set up a mediation process for his parish.

He is survived by his wife Susan, daughter Donna (Don), Casey, Rachael, Emma, Elisabeth, Mary, Joshua and Eve Kemlage, son Bill Gabriel and daughter Carrie (Jon) Kai and Kira Reynolds.  Only Italian children have special sibling like bonds with their cousins: Giovani, Paula, Joyce, Michael, John, Dennis, Daren and Hank.   

Died October 11, 2021 at Hoag Hospital

 

The family would like to invite all those who wish to attend services at Our Lady Queen of Angels on Thursday, November 11th. The service information is shown below. Following the funeral service will be a Celebration of Life at Santa Ana Country Club.

For those who wish to view the Live Stream of the service at the time listed below, please use this link:

www.OLQA.org/gabriel

In lieu of flowers, please share all of your favorite memories of John on the Memory Timeline and consider donating to CASA in memory of John.

Visitation

  • Date & Time: November 11, 2021 (10:30 AM - 11:00 AM)
  • Venue: Our Lady Queen Of Angels Catholic Church
  • Location: 2046 Mar Vista Dr Newport Beach, CA 92660 - (Get Directions)

Funeral Mass

  • Date & Time: November 11, 2021 (11:00 AM)
  • Venue: Our Lady Queen Of Angels Catholic Church
  • Location: 2046 Mar Vista Dr Newport Beach, CA 92660 - (Get Directions)

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47 responses to John Francis Gabriel

  1. Penso a te ogni giorno. Parlo con te e ti racconto della mia giornata, del mio lavoro, dei progressi di Greta a scuola e del viaggio a New York che avrei voluto fare con te, per visitare il luogo dove sei nato, la casa dove hai vissuto con la zia Selma e con il mio bisnonno Giovanni.
    Avrei voluto che tu mi raccontassi ancora tanto di te: di Selma, della tua vita; della tua famiglia e dei tuoi più cari amici; di quando ti sei laureato, di quando ti sei sposato e sei diventato padre.
    Avevo due o tre anni quando ti ho conosciuto. Sei venuto a trovare i tuoi cugini italiani a cui eri tanto legato e si accesa una scintilla tra di noi. Da allora, sei sempre stato un mio punto di riferimento, un esempio da seguire. Forse sono diventata avvocato per emularti, sperando che tu fossi fiero di me.
    Pensavo che avremmo fatto ancora tante cose insieme. Sei una persona splendida e mi manchi tanto.
    Il mio affetto è per tutta la tua famiglia, a cui sono profondamente legata.
    Ti voglio bene.
    Paola

    I think about you every day. I talk to you and tell you about my day, my job, Greta’s progress at school and the trip to New York that I wanted to do with you, to visit the place where you were born, the house where you lived with Aunt Selma and with my great-grandfather Giovanni.
    I would have liked you tell me so much more about yourself: about Selma, about your life; of your family and your closest friends; when you graduated, when you got married and became a father.
    I was two or three when I met you. You came to visit your Italian cousins “‹”‹to whom you were so attached and a spark ignited between us. Since then, you have always been my point of reference, an example to follow. Maybe I became a lawyer to emulate you, hoping you were proud of me.
    I thought we would still do many things together. You are a wonderful person and I miss you so much.
    My love is for your whole family, to which I am deeply attached.
    I love you.
    Paola

  2. Wonderful man. Fantastic competitor on and off the golf course. I will miss our talks as we walked the fairways.

  3. Sara Sharif says:

    I had the pleasure of working with John in the Family Court Mediation Program. He always kept me on my toes! I enjoyed our time together, and our many conversations about career, family and life. John approached everything with great passion and eagerness. He will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

  4. Victor Pham says:

    Although I only met John in the later years of his life, our weekly talks made me feel as though we spent lifetimes together.

    Without fail, John would volunteer at the Family Court every Wednesday to help separated parents work towards a more harmonious future for their children. His gentleness, creativity and persistence created a path out of the darkness for so many. I am deeply inspired by his lifetime of selfless service.

    I miss John greatly and my deepest sympathies goes out to his family and loved ones.

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