Julia Starkey Wilkinson

Julia Starkey Wilkinson

May 12, 1930 - July 05, 2018
Lake Forest CA

Julia Starkey Wilkinson

May 12, 1930 - July 05, 2018
Lake Forest CA


Julia Starkey Wilkinson

Julia Starkey Wilkinson went home to be the Lord on Thursday, July 5th, 2018, after a sudden diagnosis of a very aggressive and fast-growing uterine cancer. She follows her beloved husband Bob Wilkinson who died from Parkinson’s Disease in 2005.  She is survived by her two daughters, Karen Wilkinson and Christie Wilkinson Lopez, and son of her heart Gary Lopez.   Julia was born in Roanoke, Virginia, May 12, 1930, to Annie and Ebb Starkey of Virginia.  Her only sister and best friend, Ella Mae Epes, passed November 25th, 2017. Julia lived in Bedford, VA until she was a Freshman in High School and then her family moved to Blackstone, VA where she graduated from Blackstone High School as Co-Valedictorian in 1948. She graduated from Mary Washington College in Fredericksburg, Virginia with a BA in Radio and Dramatic Arts in 1952. The summer after graduating college she spent a season at Summer Stock at Martha’s Vineyard and participated in several local theater productions with great enjoyment.  She worked in broadcasting in Richmond, VA where she was introduced by her roommate to a handsome young golf professional, Bob Wilkinson, who was from Crewe, VA, just next to her hometown!  Bob was the love of her life and she always referred to him as “My Bob”.  Julia and Bob were married in Riverside, CA on July 10, 1957 and lived in California for several years until golf career opportunities took them back to the Midwest.  While in California, Julia worked for a family owned radio station in Riverside, WKACE.  Her children were her greatest blessings!  Karen was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin in 1963 and Christie was born in Deerfield, Illinois in 1968.  The family then moved to Grosse Ile, Michigan and enjoyed a wonderful life there until another job opportunity brought them back to California for which they yearned to return.  Once in California, Julia worked for Professional Community Management (PCM) for 26 years from 1981 to 2007 at which time she retired.

Julia’s passions in life were her children, grand-dogs, treasured friends, bible studies, book club, Pacific Symphony Pops concerts, hymns and music, shopping, slots at the casinos, eating, and numerous trips to Hawaii.  She loved the Lord with all her mind, heart, and soul and lived each day with a deep abiding faith and passion for loving others.

Her family will deeply miss her gracious, unconditional love, and sweet gentle tender-hearted spirit every day.  We rejoice knowing she is safe in the arms of Jesus and reunited in glory with “her” Bob and her other cherished loved ones.

The Funeral for Julia will be held at Presbyterian Church of the Master on Monday, July 16, 2018 at 11:00am.    A lunch reception at the church will follow the service.  A private Interment for her family will be held at El Toro Memorial Park.

Flowers may be sent to O’Connor Mortuary, 25301 Alicia Parkway, Laguna Hills, CA  92653              (949) 581-4300               Attention:  Monique Ray, Funeral Arranger

In lieu of flowers, Memorial donations can be made to the Sanctuary Building Fund at PCOM.

Presbyterian Church of the Master
26051 Marguerite Parkway
Mission Viejo, CA  92692
(949) 582-2670


Funeral Service

  • Date & Time: July 16, 2018 (11:00 AM)
  • Venue: Presbyterian Church Of The Master
  • Location: 26051 Marguerite Pkwy. Mission Viejo, CA 92692 - (Get Directions)

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10 responses to Julia Starkey Wilkinson

  1. Pat says:

    With a sad heart & great memories we say goodbye to our special friend. We will meet again, till then much love & hugs.?
    Pat & Mike Haynes

  2. Sending all of my love and prayers to Karen and family. My heart is with you all. Thank you for all you have done in my life and I know without the influence of your amazing mother you wouldn’t be the person you have become. Im so grateful for her.

  3. Dear Karen and Christie,

    Goodbye to your dear Mom. Julia was the most generous and kind person I ever met. I worked with her at PCM and my most favorite memory of her was stopping in to say good night as I was leaving. I would pass your patient Father waiting in the car for her to finish her day. I would remind her that Bob was waiting and she would smile and say,”Oh, My Bob.” I smile thinking of them together again.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

  4. Dear Karen and Christie,
    I am rejoicing that Julia now has a new, restored body through Christ and is enfolded by His loving arms. What a welcome her Bob and sweet sister and friends must have given her as she entered Heaven’s gates! Her faith was amazing and her love for others was always so generously given.
    She inspired and encouraged me every time I was in her presence. “The absence of her presence is everywhere” is so true! How I will miss her smile and grieve along with you, her dear family. My heart and prayers are now for you as you grieve her loss, but not without HOPE!
    May our Lord comfort and surround you with His love and the love of others who received your mother’s love.
    Love and prayers,.
    Jackie & John Kosewick

  5. We shall surely miss Julia’s smiling face and words of wisdom at Bible Study on Sunday Nights. She was a very caring, giving remarkable woman.

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