Wilfred Paul Deschenes
October 22, 1924 - April 29, 2020
Aliso Viejo CA
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Wilfred Paul Deschenes
October 22, 1924 - April 29, 2020
Aliso Viejo CA
Obituary
Wilfred “Will” Paul Deschenes passed away peacefully on April 29, 2020 in Laguna Niguel, CA at the age of 95.
Will is survived by his wife, Edna; children, Mary Sayetta (Eddie) of Charleston, SC, Anne Deschenes of San Jose, CA, and Tracy Perlongo (Michael) of Aliso Viejo, CA, grandchildren, Joseph Perlongo, Lauren Sayetta and Christopher Sayetta. He is preceded in death by his brothers, Paul and Albert Deschenes, his sister, Florence Boylan, and nephew, John Boylan.
Will was born on October 22, 1924 in Butte, Montana to Paul and Maria Deschenes. He graduated from Montana University with a degree in Electrical Engineering. On February 13, 1954, he married Edna, the love of his life in Long Beach, CA. He served in the United States Navy during WWII. After moving to Santa Maria, CA in 1960, Will began working for Western Electric (later AT & T) at Vandenberg Air Force Base as a Senior Engineer until his retirement in 1989. Throughout his career he participated in rocket launches as well as worked on additional related engineering projects. He traveled and lived in many interesting places and always said he had the best career of a lifetime. In 1982, he and Edna moved the family to his dream home in Oceano, CA. In 2013, they relocated to Laguna Hills, CA.
Will was a master at BBQ’ing and often was found volunteering at the Santa Maria Elks Club and various BBQ fundraisers in the area. He also volunteered with the Oceano Improvement Association where he strived to keep the Oceano dunes, airport and village as pristine and charming as possible. In his spare time, he would frequently get together with his former work buddies at various at AT&T Pioneer volunteer functions. An avid golfer, he played at every course in the area returning home with interesting stories of those he met and played with. When not golfing, you could find him jogging/walking on the beach or swimming at the gym. He was passionate about the Lord and would attend daily mass as often as possible with Edna. He was a member of St. Patrick’s Catholic Church and the Mission San Luis Obispo where he and Edna often volunteered with Saint Vincent de Paul Society. At present, he was a member of St Nicholas Catholic Church.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to any Saint Vincent de Paul Society or your favorite charity. The family would like to thank Senior Hospice, the Laguna Cottage and all the caregivers that entered into his life for their dedication, love and care. Condolences can be sent to: oconnormortuary.com/obits/wilfred-paul-deschenes
13 responses to Wilfred Paul Deschenes
Jim Haithcoat. says:
May 5, 2020
Thanks, Will, for all the good years.
Kimberly says:
May 5, 2020
Such a loving husband, father, and grandfather. What a blessing to all who had the privilege of knowing him. Thinking of you, praying for you, and sending lots of love to you and your sweet family, Tracy.
Joanne says:
May 7, 2020
Such an amazing , sweet and funny guy. It was a blessing to have known and be his caregiver for 2 yrs at the Wellington. I enjoyed most of our walks while we sing the friendship song and the Old Mcdonald. We talked about his life and his daughters…. his pride and joy. I’ve never met anyone so devoted to his family and to his wife Edna. Always asking about her. Wants to make sure she is ok. Love this man like a father to me. Thank you for the memories Will
Anne says:
May 7, 2020
Thank you Joann for the wonderful care you gave our parents. Dad sure did love the Old McDonald song
Randy Tracy says:
June 11, 2021
God Bless Willie!! I just now learned of Uncle Will’s demise. What a wonderful life and legacy! He influenced my life more than ever ever knew. I marveled at his tenacity in keeping his physical being in tune. And mentally? A true rocket scientist!! ƒ I like to imagine our loved ones enjoying heaven with all their beloved parents, relatives and friends. I can hear Will and my father hashing out some current events topic while planning their next golf date!! Condolences to Aunt Nana and of course the girls and their families. Blessings!
Virginia Boylan says:
May 10, 2020
I was so grateful for Will’s call after my dear husband, Will’s nephew John Boylan, passed away. It meant a lot to me to know how much he cared. Thanks, Uncle Will!
Virginia E Boylan says:
May 10, 2020
Virginia Boylan