Travis James White
May 13, 1977 - April 25, 2006
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Travis James White
May 13, 1977 - April 25, 2006
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Travis James White 28 born on May 13, 1977, died on Tuesday, April 25, 2006. He worked for New Millinium Homes as a Supervisor for 8 years. He is survived by his loving sisters, Stephanie Ann Morgan and Jennifer Paige Cuff; loving brothers, Trevor Thomas White and Taylor Robert White; devoted parents, Jeanne Foley and Gerald White, Jr. He is also survived by his beloved step-parents, Deborah White and Richard Foley; loving grandparents, Jack and Shirly Rowe. Travis was dearly loved by many and will be deeply missed by all.
A Funeral Mass will be held on Friday, April, 28, 2006 – 12:00 P.M. at St. Catherine Of Siena Church, 990 Temple Terrace, Laguna Beach, CA 92651-2531
102 responses to Travis James White
Hagen says:
June 5, 2007
Hey Trav
Well it’s just about half past 11…in the evening. Night owls we were…and I still am. I see this guest book is becoming the “Hagen guestbook” LOL I refuse to write in the other one…I know you get it, and would agree that why should words of expression about a life that one was so touched by, that they were compelled to write something, or share something only to have to have it “approved” and possibly have the entry denied public viewing. I just can’t fathom that.
Anyway I have been thinking a lot about Heaven, and what Heaven is. What is Heaven like? I have to tell you that I have been thinking about it so much that I have scared the hell out of myself at times. Going round and round with questions of Faith. The one thing that I really got stuck on was in Heaven are we no longer capable of feeling…meaning can we suffer emotionally there? Can we empathize and sympathize with those that we love and care about that are still living, in the aspect of human existence.
I don’t know. I’m kind of stuck on this one. Made me think of what your perspective on this subject would be. What would Travis say?
As I thought more about it…I grew tired, and I thought. Tired, what a perfect word for how I am feeling about this year. I am tired Trav, and I think when does it end? When do the pieces come together? There is no way to know because it is obviously all part of the plan, but much of this was prompted by attending yet another funeral this weekend. The Pastor made an interesting point…that many of us will not have the chance to say our goodbye’s because death does not come the same for everyone. In this case heart problems were the cause of death, but those problems had been a factor in this man’s life for almost three decades. So when his heart finally gave out, he was well aware that he only had weeks or months to live. But what about those who die by a virus, disease, accident, etc. Those who don’t have the chance to say goodbye. Are they at a point in their life that they are 100% sure of leaving this life to go on to the next?
I know where you stood and there isn’t a doubt in my mind that you knew 100%. That is comforting to me. I just wish you could shout down some answers to these questions from there.
I don’t know just kind of thinking out loud on your guest book, but my point is…I’m tired…and I hope that you can help the big man take me off of auto-pilot…because I just feel numb, and I know it’s just because I’m tired. I wish you were here, more than I can try to put into words.
But like Brooks said…Get busy livin’ or get busy dyin'” Hopefully I am gettin busy livin!
Hagen says:
June 14, 2007
Trav new Social D song is out called, “Far Behind” and it’s about people who pretend to be your friends and then stab you in the back or sing another tune when you’re not around. Great song! One I know you would dig. Especially because you were at a point where you felt you had weeded out all of the bad seeds in your life. I think I am getting there myself. It’s been beautiful at the beach…soaking up a lot of sun while I have the time. Wish you were around to do it up. UFC this weekend in Blefast, Ireland! How awesome! Wish I could be there in person, but I’ll be watching it for sure. Some good fights too. Franklin is fighting and so is Griffin…should be some good bouts there. Anyway just wanted to drop you a line and say hello. love ya bro.
Mom says:
June 15, 2007
“THE HAGEN CHRONICLES”…LOL. It’s okay, Hagen….we all love reading your thoughts, whether they be about Trav, to Trav, or just yours and yours alone. I just read your last entry about Heaven….here is my answer to you, and to anyone reading this. I have stumbled upon this in my 14 month journey…
DARKNESS WAITS….but it will come, no matter what you do.
Just something for all of us to think about.
and for you, Trav……..
June 14, 2007
I’m at a crossroad……
can’t quite see what’s up ahead,
behind me, is you…
to the left, is you….
to the right, is you…
Unable to move, ‘lest I leave you behind…
I stand…
motionless,
a deer…caught in the headlights of time.
Knowing I should move forward,
I tentatively slip my toe in front of me…testing…
to ensure you will follow.
How will I ever know, until I go?
But, how do I find the nerve to try?
I leave my toe in place, in front of me………..and wait….
hoping to see your shadow encircle it.
I miss you son……..so much it hurts. I love you Trav.
Hagen says:
June 21, 2007
Trav
Its almost 4 am and thank you for getting me home safely. I felt you on my shoulder. I am lost but try to pretend like I have my bearings…I don’t know anymore. all I know is that I miss you. My eyes are welling with tears. Who knows. All I know is that I don’t want to hurt anymore. But the worst part is that I think of the end, and then I think of all the people I would hurt and it isn’t worth that…but really why, why do I have to feel this way??? Why do I have to hurt and suffer so bad that I could even think that or this way? Man isn’t the Dave Matthews song so right on…The Space Between…Man it’s where we hope to keep safe from pain…but no matter where I turn it’s there. I’m not feeling bad for me I am really just trying to find my way in a huge world, that makes no sense to me. Where are you Trav…the one person that could help me put everything in perspective. God I miss you. If there is any way for you to extend your hand or an angel…please I beg you. I don’t want to feel this way anymore. I am suffering…and I try to pull myself out of it, but I just can’t seem to do it. I love you brother…I do. Please help me. Please. – Hagen
Hagen says:
June 21, 2007
Trav all I can say is THANK YOU. I got this email today…THANK YOU. I can’t thank you enough. Love ya brother and thank you once again.
GOD WANTED ME TO TELL YOU
Everything that is going wrong in your life today shall be well with you
this year. No matter how much your enemies try this year, “they will not”
succeed.
You have been destined to make it and you shall surely achieve all your
goals this year. For the remaining months of this year 2007, all your agonies
will be diverted and victory and prosperity will be incoming in abundance.
Today God has confirmed the end of your sufferings, sorrows, and pains
because HE that sits on the throne has remembered you.
I knocked at heaven’s door this morning, God asked me…My child, what
can I do for you? And I said, “Father, please protect and bless the person
reading this message”…God smiled and answered…Request granted.