Ronald Duane Kihs

Ronald Duane Kihs

April 23, 1937 - December 22, 2020
San Juan Capistrano California

Ronald Duane Kihs

April 23, 1937 - December 22, 2020
San Juan Capistrano California


San Juan Capistrano, California – Ronald (Ron) Duane Kihs, 83, of San Juan Capistrano California passed away peacefully at home Tuesday December 22, 2020 surrounded by family.

Ron was born on April 23, 1937, in Portland Oregon to Ernest and Ila Mae (Ewing) Kihs. He attended Halls Ferry School in Salem Oregon and was active in 4-H. He enlisted in the U.S. Navy in 1957 and served in Oklahoma, Tennessee, California, and Hawaii before being honorably discharged in 1963.

He married Juanita (Early) Schneider in 1958. She died in 1967. He later met and married Shirley (Sue) Hutton Anderson. They were married for 47 years. Ron and Sue lived in many different areas, including Montana, Oregon, Nebraska and California. He retired in 2002. Ron and Sue continued to live in California after retirement. He enjoyed golfing, collecting coins, and traveling in the RV to visit children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and family and friends in Montana, Texas, Nebraska and Oregon. Ron was an excellent historian. He shared many stories about where he grew up, any vacation he had been on, the places he lived and traveled. He enjoyed reminiscing about the many construction projects he had worked

Ron worked hard his entire life. He was known to show up on time and ready to work. In his younger years he would hitch hike hundreds of miles, even in the winter, if he knew there was a job to be had. His work did not go unnoticed and he was promoted to supervisor and project manager at a young age and received many awards and commendations. He worked on the Libby railroad when Libby Dam was being built in Montana, the Bonneville and John Day Dam in Oregon, the Calamus Dam in Nebraska, several projects on the Interstate in Wyoming and Montana. He got called in to the Mt. St. Helens job in Washington when he was the area manager for Washington Construction in the 80’s to get the project turned around. He was in charge of the Disneyland expansion in California, construction of the Olympic grounds in Atlanta and treatment plants in Hawaii. There were many other projects, too many to list. He built many dams and roads across the country.

Most of all Ron loved his family. Although the family was spread out across the country in Montana, Texas, Nebraska, and California, a wedding, graduation or birth of a child was rarely missed. He and Sue loaded up their Gulf Stream RV and annually traveled to see all the kids. Even after Sue passed on in 2014, Ron continued to travel to see family. In 2017, he drove to Alvin Texas where he was greeted by a surprise 80th birthday party. He then drove up to Nebraska for a graduation, and back through Montana to see more kids, grandkids and great grandkids. In 2019, at the age of 83, he drove through a blizzard in Colorado to attend the graduation of a granddaughter. He did make a quick stop at the casino, where he reports he got lucky and it paid for his trip. He always looked forward to visiting family.

Survivors include children Gwendolyn (Rick) Nelson of Stevensville Montana, Teresa (Randy) Hall of Alvin Texas, Jennifer (Shawn) Soderquist of Axtell, Nebraska and Christine (John) White of Newport Beach California and Stephen Buning, Idaha. Step-children Larry Schneider, Gloria (Schneider) Brown, and Cindy (Lane) Schneider. Grandchildren Marissa Nelson, Matthew (Lynessa) Nelson, Julie (Travis) Wernecke, Megan (Keiffer Greigo) Marcellus, Sara (Garek) Bebee, Lindsey White, Michael Marcellus, Elizabeth Marcellus, and Ayden White. Great Grandchildren Cameron Duncan, Madison Martinko, Elisabeth Wernecke, Gohan Greigo, Hawken Nelson, Broly Greigo, and Kaia Nelson; sisters Betty, Mary and Winnie and brother Carmen.

He was preceded in death by his parents Ernest and Ila Mae Kihs; stepmother Bessie Kihs; wife Shirley (Sue) Kihs; brother Robert (Bob) Kihs; sons Mark Anderson and David Schneider; stepdaughter Diane McCastlin; and grandson Clare Scott (Scotty) Hall.

Due to Covid restrictions, the family is planning a private memorial at a later date. A video has been created for family and friends in remembrance of Ron.  Please view it at

The family would like to thank the staff, especially Cristen and Sara, of MemorialCare Hospice, for their attention and care for Ron.

In lieu of flowers, our family requests a gift to MemorialCare Hospice & Palliative Services, which can be made through Saddleback Medical Center Foundation:


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Saddleback Medical Center Foundation. Gift Processing Center. P.O. Box 2665. Seal Beach, CA 90740-1665 (Please write “Hospice” and “In memory of Ronald Kihs” in the memo of the check.)


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4 responses to Ronald Duane Kihs

  1. It is with a heavy heart I say Farewell to my Brother, Ron. Though we had the same Mother, we grew up worlds apart. The loss of her two sons was the tragedy of our mother’s life. I’m very Thankful Mother and Son were reunited. I am also Thankful that Ron and I sought each other out and found some kinship.

    I was always so Proud of him. His Navy picture hung in our home throughout my childhood. His Mother, his Alaskan sisters, Sandee and Mary, and I LOVED Him Very Much! He will Forever be in our hearts! God wipes away all tears. Joy cometh in the morning!

    1. Nelson Gwen says:

      Thank You!

  2. To a grandfather I never got to me I love you and you were with the heavenly father now and I will hopefully get to see you in heaven love always your granddaughter Cynthia Bunning

  3. Ron was my Uncle – my mother Bonnie – sister of Jaunita;

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