Richard Oakley
December 06, 1946 - August 13, 2024
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Richard Oakley
December 06, 1946 - August 13, 2024
Obituary
Richard “Dick” Byron Oakley passed away August 13th, 2024 after a short illness with cancer. He was surrounded by family in the days and hours before his death and we are comforted that he is no longer in pain. In the months leading up to his illness, he enjoyed his favorite things including daily lap swims, golf games, spotting vanity license plates, sneaking M&Ms, and the California sunshine.
Richard was born December 6th, 1946 in Grand Rapids, MI to the late Eleanor and Frank Oakley where he grew up alongside his siblings George and Trisha, ultimately graduating from Groves High School in Birmingham, MI. He attended Michigan State University where he majored in zoology, was a member of the swim team, and the Delta Chi fraternity. A long career in sales eventually brought him to southern California where he met his late wife Gail Comstock Oakley. They were married for 25 years and enjoyed supporting the arts, skiing in Utah, and traveling together.
Richard had a strong sense of service to his community. He served his country as a member of the Army Reserve National Guard and for the past 15 years was a volunteer with the Orange County Trauma Intervention program, helping people through moments of crisis at all hours of the day and night. He served in various roles within the Rancho Santa Margarita community and throughout his life as a member of the Mayflower Congregational church (Grand Rapids, MI) and Trabuco Presbyterian and Presbyterian Church of the Master (Orange County, CA). He was a very proud father to his daughter Brooke and grandfather to Keegan and Emily.
Richard was preceded in death by his wife Gail Comstock Oakley, mother Eleanor Oakley Dunn, and father Frank Oakley. He is survived by his daughter Brooke Oakley Cherven (Chris) of Decatur, GA and two young grandchildren Keegan James and Emily Oakley Cherven; brother George Oakley (Alice) of Cedar Key, FL; sister Trisha Dunn (Tom) of Commerce Township MI; sister-in-law Lynn Barnhart (Chris) of Seattle, WA; and close companion Anne Braden of Mission Viejo, CA. He will be remembered by his nieces, nephews, and many friends. Details regarding a celebration of life service will be shared at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, consider donating to the Leonard Cancer Institute at Providence Mission Hospital (https://supportmissionhospital.org/giving-opportunities/leonard-cancer-institute/) where both he and his late wife received excellent care or Camp Sunshine (www.mycampsunshine.com) an organization supporting children with cancer and their families where his daughter has been a long-time volunteer.
2 responses to Richard Oakley
Carol DePue says:
August 23, 2024
Because Dick loved the arts, I chose the music candle. He and Gale were always going to concerts and plays and loved their “summer camp” activities back east. I knew Dick from Trabuco Presbyterian Church. He was such an active, caring individual – loved his golf and swimming, loved his work with the trauma group. This community will miss Dick and his wonderful sense of humor. I bet Gail is showing him the ropes now.
Terri Rinker says:
August 24, 2024
Richard Oakley was an amazing person. I knew both he and his wife Gail. They were loving pet owners and it was a pleasure to get to know him, Gail and their pets. We at Santa Margarita Animal Hospital were saddened at the loss of his wife Gail. When he brought little Sophie in for the first time we were overjoyed to see him so happy with her. Then sadly he quietly told me about his own battle with cancer. To soon the world lost a very fine gentleman. We are sorry for the families loss, and for all who will miss him. To his family and friends, he was simply the best. We will miss him. He always greeted us with a smile and a laugh. The world needs more Richard Oakley’s in it. Rest in peace. Heaven has a new angel now. Terri R and the staff at Santa Margarita Animal Hospital.