Why Did You Become an Embalmer?: An Interview with Joanna

Why Did You Become an Embalmer?: An Interview with Joanna

An interview with our Care Center Manager and Assistant General Manager, Joanna Ramirez:

– How long have you worked for O’Connor Mortuary?

I have been here at O’Connor since 2006.

– When did you first learn about embalming? 

I first learned about embalming when I was in school and a guidance counselor passed a list of majors out to the class. I started looking into it and found all sorts of information on the history and present day of embalming.

– What made you think that embalming was something you might like to do professionally?

Growing up, I originally wanted to be a nurse but when I saw Mortuary Science on the list, I was intrigued. I have always enjoyed art and science and thought that embalming incorporated both of those aspects. I immediately fell in love with the idea of becoming an embalmer. I love the challenge and the responsibility of trying to make someone that I have never met into the person everyone remembers.

– What do people say to you when the find out what you do for a living?

Most peoples initial reaction to our profession is “Wow! You work with dead people?” or “You don’t look like you would work there”. It is always very interesting how people perceive us. They think I work in a dungeon and open people up and stuff them. When I get that type of reaction from people, I always like to elaborate on what I do. Not just the embalming parts but also the working with families. After conversing further with them, I find that their perception changes from thinking I am weird to having respect not only for what I do, but also for the mortuary profession that provides care for these hurting families.

Joanna Ramirez

Joanna

 

I feel rewarded in different ways. As an embalmer, I always feel gratification when a family thanks me because their loved one looks better than when they were alive (these are mainly people who die of cancer or another illness). To hear that from a family is the ultimate compliment. Also, there is the reward felt from the families’ gratitude towards you. Doing everything possible to assist families through their most difficult time and just being there for them is fulfillment enough.

– What do you do off the clock to relax?

On my time off, I like to spend time with my family. Whether we are going to Palm Springs, The River, or just a good old fashion road, my husband and daughter always join me.

– How have you seen your work help and comfort families?

Most of the time it is from just simply listening to them. Some families want someone to talk to. Someone to be an ear and listen to how he or she is feeling, how much they miss their loved one or how extraordinary that person was. It is simple but it helps families so very much.

– If you could tell people 1 thing about your job, what would it be?

That I love my job and I wouldn’t want to be anywhere else.

What questions do you have for Joanna? After reading this interview, has your impression of this type of work changed?

Molly Keating
Molly Keating
Hello! I'm Molly and I run & manage the Blog here at O'Connor. I grew up in a mortuary with a mortician for a father who's deep respect for the profession inspired me to give working at a mortuary a try. Work at O'Connor has brought together two of my deep passions, writing & grief awareness. In 2016 I earned Certification in the field of Thanatology, the study of Death, Dying and Bereavement. I am honored to be able to speak on these taboo topics with knowledge, compassion, and a unique perspective. I want to sincerely thank you for following & reading the blog, I hope that this is a healing place for you.

43 Comments

  1. amy says:

    Thanks for the little bit of insite into who you are. You truly have a gift that deserves to be shared with others. Thank you for you constant help and support. It is a pleasure to be in your company.

  2. Sharon Watkins says:

    My first post did not work – so I’ll try again! I am so glad that Molly interviewed Joanna and we can all hear her thoughts about why she decided to go into this profession. We all know that she is so good at what she does and we love having her on our team.

  3. Christopher Iverson says:

    Joanna,

    It is such a long way that you’ve come as a woman, mother, embalmer and leader. I am so proud to be your partner running the GM chair at the mortuary. The great gift you give to all of us here at the mortuary is the gift of a higher standard of excellence. Thank you!

  4. Jeff Turner says:

    Joanna,
    You are such an amazing woman. The transformation of your life over the years I have know you is remarkable and yet in many ways I believe we will witness even greater things in you than we now know. Thank you for sharing about your work and life in this interview. You are indeed one of the most capable listeners I have known and your intuition about people is a little unnerving. That’s why I avoid you sometimes…. No, I don’t.

    I love your laugh, love for life, Joaquin and your beautiful girl. I pray for more and continued blessings upon you and look forward to being embalmed by you someday. I will try not to critique of your work. But just that one time.

    Hugs!

    Jeff Turner

    • Joanna Ramirez says:

      Jeffry Turner. I did not know you felt that way. I am absolutely humbled by your kind words. Thank you very much and appreciate and give my gratitude to you and the team for putting up with me through my growth. Thank you sir!!!

  5. Rosemary says:

    Thank you for doing this interview, Joanna! Now everyone can see what a caring and professional person you are, yet always with a great sense of perspective and humor. I am proud and honored to work with you every day!

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